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一隻皮鞋

耶利米哀歌3:23-26

每早晨這都是新的,祢的誠實極其廣大。 24 我心裡說:「耶和華是我的份,因此我要仰望祂。」 25 凡等候耶和華,心裡尋求祂的,耶和華必施恩給他。26 人仰望耶和華,靜默等候祂的救恩,這原是好的。

西元1814年,法國將軍陶美尼打仗時,被敵軍炸斷一條腿,負責擦皮鞋的勤務兵為此難過的哭著;陶美尼將軍斥責說:「哭什麼哭!你忘了嗎?軍人只能流血、流汗,不能流淚!以後我只要穿一隻皮鞋就好了,多方便啊!你只要擦一隻皮鞋就夠了,多輕鬆啊!」

有句話說:「命好不如態度好!」發生事情以後,執著過去已經不重要了,重要的是你怎麼面對未來!所謂的態度有部分是我們生活上的行為表現,更重要的是我們心靈的交託和盼望,也就是我們的信心!我們相信天父的慈愛,祂的憐憫永不斷絕。因此,信心將我們從痛苦的災禍深淵救拔出來,再將我們浸泡在喜樂的救恩泉源當中。

明白且接受「穿一隻皮鞋的方便、擦一隻皮鞋的輕鬆」是穿兩隻鞋走路的人需要學習的功課。

The Devastation of Sin

Don’t think for a second that lust has no consequences. And don’t think for a second that the consequences won’t lead to scandal. A secret sin never remains secret. Lust will take you further than you wanted to go, keep you longer than you wanted to stay, and cost you more than you ever intended to pay. Envision the worst possible outcome of infidelity and be assured, Satan is plotting to deliver it.

Even after you have turned away from lust, the filth lingers in your system. And long after the sin is forgiven, the soot of the sin lingers. And long after alcoholism is forgiven, the thirst lingers. Long after the embezzlement is forgiven, employment opportunities are rare. Long after the affair is over, the embarrassment hovers. Even the psalmist wrote: “Even my bones are not healthy because of my sin” (Psalm 38:3 NCV).

神恩賜的生活

傳道書5:18-19    我所見為善為美的,就是人在神賜他一生的日子吃喝,享受日光之下勞碌得來的好處,因為這是他的份。 19 神賜人資財豐富,使他能以吃用,能取自己的份,在他勞碌中喜樂,這乃是神的恩賜。

畢業分別多年的同學相約拜訪老師,一坐下,老師高興地垂問大家生活過得如何。不料,這句話勾出了大家的滿腹牢騷,每個人輪流訴說生活的不如意:「工作壓力大!家庭煩惱多!做生意的資金套牢!當公務的仕途受阻!…」仿佛大家都成了時代的棄兒。

一陣子的訴苦抱怨,老師看出大家口乾舌燥,從櫥櫃裡拿出一大堆杯子,擺在茶几上。各式各樣的杯子,瓷器的、玻璃的、塑鋼的…,杯子表面有彩繪風景、雕塑圖騰、還有紀念圖案…,老師提把水壺說:「大家都是我的學生,我不把你們當客人看待了。你們要是渴了,就自己倒水喝吧。」

大家紛紛選了自己看中的杯子倒水喝,留下了一落疊在一起的紙杯,老師拿起一個紙杯說:「你們有沒有發現,大家手裡的杯子都是最好看、最別緻的杯子,而像這紙杯就沒人選中它。」當然,還用說?我們都希望自己拿著的是一隻好看的杯子。

The Pandemic of Lust

There is a difference between healthy romance and lurid lust. Lust is a longing for sexual satisfaction outside of a covenant relationship. What is the epicenter for the pandemic of lust? Pornography. Never in the history of the world has it been so easy to look twice where a person has no business looking once. Anyone with unfiltered internet is a click away from images that were inaccessible and unimaginable a few years ago.

Solomon asked, “Can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned?” (Proverbs 6:27 ESV). Or in our day: can a person view click after click, page after page, image after image of violent, deviant, degrading immorality and not be infected? The answer is no.

告訴我為什麼?

希伯來書9:27  按著定命,人人都有一死,死後且有審判。

約翰福音3:16-17  神愛世人,甚至將祂的獨生子賜給他們,叫一切信祂的不致滅亡,反得永生。 17 因為神差祂的兒子降世,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人因祂得救。

有一位軍閥每次處決死刑犯時,都會留給犯人最後的機會,選擇一槍斃命,或是選擇進入側牆的一扇門。從來沒有人知道進入那扇門的命運將如何?因為所有死刑犯都寧可選擇一槍斃命,也不願進入裡面不知有何光景的那扇門。

一天,酒酣耳熱後,軍閥顯得很開心。旁人大膽地問他:「大帥,您可不可以告訴我們,從那扇門走進去究竟會有什麼結果?」

「沒什麼啦!其實走進那扇門的人只要踏上幾個台階,便可以順利地自由離開了。人們不想走進去,只是不敢面對不可知的未來罷了。」軍閥回答。

A Wedding Gift from God

Our quest to manage life by taming thoughts would fail the test of relevancy if we did not discuss lust. To lust is to crave what does not belong to you. Lust and love are not synonyms. Romance is healthy. God wired you to connect deeply, enjoyably, and nakedly to a person of the opposite sex under the canopy of marriage. Ever since Adam saw Eve, the power of sexual attraction has been part of life. God gave sex as a gift—a wedding gift.

“Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!” (Proverbs 5:19 MSG). Delight in each other!

看不到目標比死還可怕

希伯來書9:27  按著定命,人人都有一死,死後且有審判。

約翰福音3:16-17  神愛世人,甚至將祂的獨生子賜給他們,叫一切信祂的不致滅亡,反得永生。 17 因為神差祂的兒子降世,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人因祂得救。

有一位軍閥每次處決死刑犯時,都會留給犯人最後的機會,選擇一槍斃命,或是選擇進入側牆的一扇門。從來沒有人知道進入那扇門的命運將如何?因為所有死刑犯都寧可選擇一槍斃命,也不願進入裡面不知有何光景的那扇門。

一天,酒酣耳熱後,軍閥顯得很開心。旁人大膽地問他:「大帥,您可不可以告訴我們,從那扇門走進去究竟會有什麼結果?」

「沒什麼啦!其實走進那扇門的人只要踏上幾個台階,便可以順利地自由離開了。人們不想走進去,只是不敢面對不可知的未來罷了。」軍閥回答。

Joy Is Always an Option

It would be folly to think life can be lived with no setbacks. But problems have no more power over us than we allow them to have. Remember, joy is more than a good mood. It is a deep-seated confidence in God’s presence, power, and promises. Joy might feel elusive, and finding it might take a long time. But it always remains an option.

Some of the saddest words in Scripture are recorded in Mark 6:5 (CEB). “[Jesus] was unable to do any miracles there, except that he placed his hands on a few sick people and healed them.” Why was Jesus unable to do the works? The answer is found in the next passage: “He was appalled by their disbelief” (Mark 6:6 CEB).

What a tragic loss! God was in their midst, and they did not seek him. Let’s not make the same mistake.

Choose What to Remember

Assess your joy level. The prophet Jeremiah modeled the vigilance we need. He was nicknamed the “Weeping Prophet” because he was exactly that. His beloved nation had turned from God. But then he remembered the answer for his despair. “This I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases” (Lamentations 3:21-22 ESV).

We choose what we remember. So, let’s remember our call to joy. Stay in the present moment. Harvard researchers discovered that unhappy people focus on what is not happening; happy people focus on what is happening. Wasn’t this the point Jesus made in the Sermon on the Mount? “Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear” (Matthew 6:25 NIV). Don’t settle for a joyless life!

左右手互打

哥林多前書 12:18-21 

但如今,神隨自己的意思把肢體俱各安排在身上了。 19 若都是一個肢體,身子在哪裡呢? 20 但如今肢體是多的,身子卻是一個。 21 眼不能對手說:「我用不著你。」頭也不能對腳說:「我用不著你。」

王先生是一個不苟言笑的人,平常很吝嗇給人讚美或掌聲。有一天他在家裡吃飯,發現有一道烤鴨的鴨子只有一條腿,於是問太太:「為什麼這隻鴨子只有一隻腳?」。太太說:「有什麼好奇怪的,我們家的鴨子都只有一隻腳呀。」

「我不信,所有鴨子都有兩隻腳,為什麼只有我們家的鴨子比較特別?」「不信,你不會自己到池塘去看。」於是王先生跑到池塘去看他的鴨子。

鴨子正好在睡午覺,因此都縮著一條腿,只用一條腿站立。看過去,好像所有的鴨子真的都只有一條腿。王先生靈機一動,朝鴨子棲息的方向很用力地鼓掌,鼓掌的聲音把鴨子都驚醒了,紛紛把縮著的那隻腳放了下來。