告訴我為什麼?

希伯來書9:27  按著定命,人人都有一死,死後且有審判。

約翰福音3:16-17  神愛世人,甚至將祂的獨生子賜給他們,叫一切信祂的不致滅亡,反得永生。 17 因為神差祂的兒子降世,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人因祂得救。

有一位軍閥每次處決死刑犯時,都會留給犯人最後的機會,選擇一槍斃命,或是選擇進入側牆的一扇門。從來沒有人知道進入那扇門的命運將如何?因為所有死刑犯都寧可選擇一槍斃命,也不願進入裡面不知有何光景的那扇門。

一天,酒酣耳熱後,軍閥顯得很開心。旁人大膽地問他:「大帥,您可不可以告訴我們,從那扇門走進去究竟會有什麼結果?」

「沒什麼啦!其實走進那扇門的人只要踏上幾個台階,便可以順利地自由離開了。人們不想走進去,只是不敢面對不可知的未來罷了。」軍閥回答。

A Wedding Gift from God

Our quest to manage life by taming thoughts would fail the test of relevancy if we did not discuss lust. To lust is to crave what does not belong to you. Lust and love are not synonyms. Romance is healthy. God wired you to connect deeply, enjoyably, and nakedly to a person of the opposite sex under the canopy of marriage. Ever since Adam saw Eve, the power of sexual attraction has been part of life. God gave sex as a gift—a wedding gift.

“Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!” (Proverbs 5:19 MSG). Delight in each other!

看不到目標比死還可怕

希伯來書9:27  按著定命,人人都有一死,死後且有審判。

約翰福音3:16-17  神愛世人,甚至將祂的獨生子賜給他們,叫一切信祂的不致滅亡,反得永生。 17 因為神差祂的兒子降世,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人因祂得救。

有一位軍閥每次處決死刑犯時,都會留給犯人最後的機會,選擇一槍斃命,或是選擇進入側牆的一扇門。從來沒有人知道進入那扇門的命運將如何?因為所有死刑犯都寧可選擇一槍斃命,也不願進入裡面不知有何光景的那扇門。

一天,酒酣耳熱後,軍閥顯得很開心。旁人大膽地問他:「大帥,您可不可以告訴我們,從那扇門走進去究竟會有什麼結果?」

「沒什麼啦!其實走進那扇門的人只要踏上幾個台階,便可以順利地自由離開了。人們不想走進去,只是不敢面對不可知的未來罷了。」軍閥回答。

Joy Is Always an Option

It would be folly to think life can be lived with no setbacks. But problems have no more power over us than we allow them to have. Remember, joy is more than a good mood. It is a deep-seated confidence in God’s presence, power, and promises. Joy might feel elusive, and finding it might take a long time. But it always remains an option.

Some of the saddest words in Scripture are recorded in Mark 6:5 (CEB). “[Jesus] was unable to do any miracles there, except that he placed his hands on a few sick people and healed them.” Why was Jesus unable to do the works? The answer is found in the next passage: “He was appalled by their disbelief” (Mark 6:6 CEB).

What a tragic loss! God was in their midst, and they did not seek him. Let’s not make the same mistake.

Choose What to Remember

Assess your joy level. The prophet Jeremiah modeled the vigilance we need. He was nicknamed the “Weeping Prophet” because he was exactly that. His beloved nation had turned from God. But then he remembered the answer for his despair. “This I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases” (Lamentations 3:21-22 ESV).

We choose what we remember. So, let’s remember our call to joy. Stay in the present moment. Harvard researchers discovered that unhappy people focus on what is not happening; happy people focus on what is happening. Wasn’t this the point Jesus made in the Sermon on the Mount? “Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear” (Matthew 6:25 NIV). Don’t settle for a joyless life!

左右手互打

哥林多前書 12:18-21 

但如今,神隨自己的意思把肢體俱各安排在身上了。 19 若都是一個肢體,身子在哪裡呢? 20 但如今肢體是多的,身子卻是一個。 21 眼不能對手說:「我用不著你。」頭也不能對腳說:「我用不著你。」

王先生是一個不苟言笑的人,平常很吝嗇給人讚美或掌聲。有一天他在家裡吃飯,發現有一道烤鴨的鴨子只有一條腿,於是問太太:「為什麼這隻鴨子只有一隻腳?」。太太說:「有什麼好奇怪的,我們家的鴨子都只有一隻腳呀。」

「我不信,所有鴨子都有兩隻腳,為什麼只有我們家的鴨子比較特別?」「不信,你不會自己到池塘去看。」於是王先生跑到池塘去看他的鴨子。

鴨子正好在睡午覺,因此都縮著一條腿,只用一條腿站立。看過去,好像所有的鴨子真的都只有一條腿。王先生靈機一動,朝鴨子棲息的方向很用力地鼓掌,鼓掌的聲音把鴨子都驚醒了,紛紛把縮著的那隻腳放了下來。

Ripple Effect

The first Christians were joyful Christians. The phrase “joyful Christian” is redundant. Do we need the adjective? Ideally, we should not have to put joyful in front of Christian. But we do because we tend to major in contingent joy and not courageous joy. Let’s invite God to deposit unspeakable joy in our hearts.

According to a study from sociologists at Harvard University, joy is contagious, spreading among friends, neighbors, and colleagues like the flu. Joy has a ripple effect. The pursuit of happiness is more than a line in the Declaration of Independence. It is a necessary step in enhancing the happiness of others. Is it time for you to bump up your joy level?

不要迷失在人群中

路加福音 19:1-10

耶穌進了耶利哥,正經過的時候, 2 有一個人名叫撒該,做稅吏長,是個財主, 3 他要看看耶穌是怎樣的人。只因人多,他的身量又矮,所以不得看見。 4 就跑到前頭,爬上桑樹,要看耶穌,因為耶穌必從那裡經過。 5 耶穌到了那裡,抬頭一看,對他說:「撒該,快下來!今天我必住在你家裡。」

在廣大的世界裏,我們常覺得自己只不過是群眾中一個微不足道的小人物罷了。世界的趨勢驅使我們除去個人的特質,要我們認同周圍的人,而且成為與他們相同的一份子。然而,神卻以祂獨特的方式來愛我們。

耶穌在前往耶路撒冷的路上,群眾蜂擁包圍祂,矮小的撒該非得爬上一棵樹,才看得到耶穌。撒該原想,只要看最偉大的教師一眼,就心滿意足,但耶穌居然停下來,抬頭直視他!對他說:「撒該,快下來!今天我必住在你家裡。」
南丁格爾(Florence Nightingale)是近代護理學的創始人,但很多人不知道,她其實也是統計學的傳奇人物,她是用統計改變世界的護理先鋒。

Courageous Joy

Jesus said: “I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete” (John 15:11 NIV).

The joy Jesus offers is unlike the one promised at the car dealership or shopping mall. It is not a joy that depends upon circumstance. Peter spoke of this joy. “Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory” (1 Peter 1:8 NKJV). Peter was writing to persecuted Christians. Adversaries took their rights, property, and possessions. But no one could take their Jesus. No one could take their joy.

Courageously joyful people have tethered their hearts to the foundation of God. Is that to say your life will be storm-free? Is that to say no sorrow will come your way? No. But that is to say your sorrow will not last forever.

一顆愛神的心

詩篇 90:10-12

我們一生的年日是七十歲,若是強壯可到八十歲,但其中所矜誇的不過是勞苦愁煩;轉眼成空,我們便如飛而去。11 誰曉得祢怒氣的權勢?誰按著祢該受的敬畏曉得祢的憤怒呢?12 求祢指教我們怎樣數算自己的日子,好叫我們得著智慧的心。

一位年輕的姊妹忙著作孩童語言發展研究,跟ChatGPT訴苦:「統計數據很麻煩!作分析圖表也是!」ChatGPT回應:「真的懂妳!做統計真的很折磨人,尤其是面對一堆數字、檢定、圖表、報告的時候;但是,統計其實也改變過很多人的人生,我分享一個真實故事,希望可以給妳一點力量。」

南丁格爾(Florence Nightingale)是近代護理學的創始人,但很多人不知道,她其實也是統計學的傳奇人物,她是用統計改變世界的護理先鋒。